tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10045621403621895402023-11-15T07:26:00.489-08:00Ramblings Of An Under-Used MindPeople are strange and don't usually make a lot of sense, myself included. The only real difference between us is that I say whatever comes into my head, while others have more discretion.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-79396640238672451162012-07-12T14:08:00.000-07:002012-07-12T14:08:29.925-07:00Can't I Just Be Myself?<strong>All these people keep telling me, “Writers need to be <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">brands</i>,” “You need to be your <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">brand</i>,” and “You are not just selling books,
you are selling your <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">brand</i>.”</strong><br />
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<strong>So, now that I'm a published author, I need to have a brand? When I think of my favorite authors,
the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">last</i> thing I think about is a
brand. </strong></div>
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<strong>Brands are for potato chips. Or purses. Or the initials ranchers burn
into the flesh of cattle. And the last time I checked, I don’t have anything tattooed
on my ass. </strong></div>
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<strong>But supposedly, this isn’t negotiable. To be a successful
author, I have to come up with a BRAND (capital letters because it’s so
important). </strong></div>
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<strong>Hmm… I write in almost every genre. I can’t help it. I <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">read</i> in all of them, am <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">inspired</i> by all of them, so it is only
natural that I <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">write</i> in all of them.
Urban Fantasy, paranormal romance, mystery, comedy, women’s literature. </strong></div>
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<strong>Dang it, I don’t think it will work. Wait, I feel an
inspiration coming on…wait for it…hang on…a little longer…okay, this might take
a while so go get something to snack on while you wait…</strong></div>
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<strong>I GOT IT!!! I’ve been inspired by my favorite <em>brand</em> of chips!</strong></div>
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<strong>Doritos! </strong></div>
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I am going to be like Doritos. Everyone likes Doritos, right?</strong><br />
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<strong>First there was only nacho cheese flavored. Then they
branched out with spicy nacho cheese, really spicy nacho cheese, and
burn-your-face-off nacho cheese. And then they started getting <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">really</i> creative—guacamole-flavored and sour
cream flavored chips to ease your palate, or for those who don’t like too much
heat. But the piece de resistance—the scoop shape, marketed as the best way to
avoid double-dipping in the salsa bowl. Make your friends like you again by
scooping one enormous pile of diced tomato, jalapeno, onion and cilantro into
your very own little corn bowl you can shove in your pie-hole. Brilliant.</strong><br />
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<strong>So here goes: Lauren Stewart is a Dorito. She started by
releasing a spicy paranormal romance, then the first book in a
burn-your-eyes-out dark urban fantasy series. But to ease the palate, or for
those readers whose tastes don’t run quite that hot, the next project will be a
comedic mystery. Mix in a few variations like YA fantasy and women’s lit in the
form of free short stories.</strong></div>
<strong>But my piece de resistance is that all of my work is
scoopable! While it may not make you more likeable to your friends, everything
you read by me is cross-genre. Why not, right? Why not have a little bit of
everything in every bite—I mean, in every story. Elements of comedy, satire,
romance, suspense, mystery, paranormal, women’s issues.</strong><br />
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<strong>Go on, taste it. You might just love it. You might even
discover your new favorite brand.</strong><br />
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Oh, and feel free to double-dip as much as you’d like, I won’t
mind a bit.</strong><br />Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-48767385837497126012011-06-06T19:40:00.000-07:002020-08-06T18:36:43.369-07:00Why I Want To Be Like My Kindergartener When I Grow Up<div align="center"><em><strong>This will be a re-occurring segment on my blog. Why? Why not?</strong></em></div><div align="center"><em><strong>My kindergartener is way smarter than I am.
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I want to be free to give everyone “Air Hugs” whenever I feel like it.</div><p align="left">
For those of you uneducated in the technique of “air hugging”, I’ve included step-by-step instructions.</p><p align="left"> <em>*** This writer holds no responsibility if you hurt yourself or anyone around you </em><em>while trying this.</em></p><ol><li><div align="left">Place your right hand on your left upper-arm.</div></li><li><div align="left">Place your left hand on your right upper-arm.</div></li><li><div align="left">Make eye contact with the person you wish to “air hug”.</div></li><li><div align="left">While gently squeezing your arms, say the words “air hug”.</div></li><li><div align="left">That’s it! You’ve done it! Wasn't that fun?</div></li></ol><p align="left">
The world would be a better place if we all did this more often. No mess, no bodily contact, just good lovin’. What’s not to like here?</p>Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-10167698819156717102011-04-07T13:31:00.000-07:002011-04-07T14:08:35.507-07:00Rain, Baby, RainIt was as dark and stormy of a night that is possible at one o'clock in the afternoon in South Florida. The rain pelted my windshield in huge drops. The wipers, not being able to move at light-speed, were useless. I drove slowly. As slowly as a senior citizen on the freeway. <br /><br />In the moments I could see, immediately after the wipers had bravely done their duty, before the downpour made everything disappear, I saw a woman next to the bus stop twenty feet from my car. She stood with her back to the wind and was holding . . . <em>have to wait for the wipers</em> . . . something white in her arms, covering it with as much of herself as she could. . . <em>Wait for wipe</em>rs. . . Oh my god, she's rocking it! Her gentle bounce and loving gaze were only interrupted by a . . . <em>wipers</em> . . . make that two quick glances up--probably searching for any sign of an approaching bus. <br /><br />I had just enough time in between wiper swipes to check the backseat. Yep. I think my daughter's currently vacant carseat was the kind that could hold a child between 5-65 lbs. I would save them! If only the cars ahead of me would move a little faster, I could get this poor mother and child before they melted. . . Come on . . . Come on . . . A little closer now . . . Come on. A little closer. <br /><br />I swung the car into the bus lane, slammed on the brakes, and threw on my hazard lights, hoping that the senior citizen behind me wouldn't get too confused, panic and plow into the rear end of my car. I slammed my finger onto the automatic window control (what did we do before those?) and the passenger-side window lowered, allowing the rain to drench my car's interior. <br /><br />"Get in!" I shouted to the woman with the baby. <br /><br />"Oh my God, thank you!" she shouted back, pulling the door open. <br /><br />"There's a carseat in the back for the baby!" <br /><br />"Oh, thank you. Thank you." She slid into the seat. Adjusting herself into the seat, she cooed, "See honey, we're all dry now." The woman held her baby away from her body and unwrapped the soaking blanket. <br /><br />The baby's fur was all matted and stuck out in brown and black spikes all over its head. The fierce pride that had swollen my chest turned into a sneeze. The woman looked over at me. <br /><br />"I'm allergic," I mumbled. <br /><br />"What?" Her attention had already returned to her mangy-looking beast. <br /><br />"Nothing. Cute dog." <br /><br />"Thanks. She's my little baby." Then she started the baby-talk. "Awen't you, my pwetty ba-by?" <br /><br />I pointed to the backseat. "You'd better strap her in." <br /><br />"Oh, no. She can stay up here with us." <br /><br />"Great." <br /><br />Lauren, the hero. Saving the day and then rushing to Walgreens for some Benadryl.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-20323718728138063872011-02-20T13:46:00.000-08:002011-02-20T14:13:46.032-08:00Lucky MeMy life is blessed. I have a wonderful family, amazing kids, a rewarding job, a warm home, and great friends.<br /><br />While I don't want to seem ungrateful, lots of people have all of those things. That is why I am <em><strong>so</strong></em> excited about the other ways I'm incredibly lucky. It may be necessary for you to sit down, if you aren't already ... wait for it ... patience ... Okay, I can't wait any longer! Here's the good news!<br /><br />Recently, I found out that an old friend might be searching for me <em>and</em> I can get "better" breasts online! I'm not sure how they knew that my breasts could be "better", but they <em>did</em>! Not only that, but I have <em>two</em> new messages on a singles website that I've never even visited! And, if I <em>had</em> a penis, a company selling a totally natural, herbal supplement could make it larger! And lastly, but please don't spread this around because I don't want everyone knowing, it seems like there's a windfall coming to me, all the way from Nigeria. I'm not going to mention a number, but I <em>will</em> say that with it I could probably <em><strong>buy</strong></em> a better family to go with my breasts!<br /><br />I ask you: Does life get any better than this?Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-66310393632005172802010-03-25T05:44:00.000-07:002010-03-25T13:23:58.376-07:00How To Throw A Kid's Birthday Party for Less Than $5I close my mouth and yell into the phone, “You want how much? For a bounce house? For two hours?”<br /><br />As an ex-boyfriend of mine used to say at a restaurant, looking at the bill: “I just wanted to eat, I didn't want to buy the place!” <br /><br />At our house, along with spring comes birthday parties. One at the end of March and the other just a week and a half later. It was bad planning on my part - I should have told their dad I had a headache. I mean, my son was only a year and 9 months old! What was I thinking? Saying "I'm not in the mood" for another 3 or 4 months then would have saved me a lot of frustration now.<br /><br />So, now that the kids and I live on one income (that doesn't quite pay the bills), birthday parties have become a big issue. Throwing two parties in three weeks makes it that much harder. But, where there is a will, there is a way. The kids have the will, so I have to find a way. Cheaply.<br /><br /><strong>Trick #1: Think of free games<br />Cost: Whatever paper, a bit of computer ink, and creativity are going for nowadays</strong><br /><br />“We are going to play games at your parties!” I tell them with as much excitement as I can muster.<br />My son looks up. “Oh, cool.”<br />Normally “oh cool” would be a nice reaction, but I know my child too well – he misunderstood me.<br />“Not video games. Regular games.”<br />Blank faces.<br />“Like pin the tail on the donkey!”<br />“Pin the what on the what?” they say, more or less in unison.<br />“Pin the <em>tail </em>on the <em>donkey</em>.”<br />“Hey, Zoe. Did you know another word for donkey is -”<br />“Okay!” I shout. “No time for vocabulary lessons. We need to plan.” <br /><br /><strong>Trick #2: Activities<br />Cost: By using items you already have, activities can be free.</strong><br /><br />I hope all the little girls want to have their faces painted like Spiderman. Red is the only color lipstick I have left. I think I have an old black eyeliner around here somewhere too.<br /><br />We made a pinata using an unused balloon found in the corner of my son's room, a newspaper stolen from a neighbor's recycling bin and old, green house paint. We call the creation: A Springtime Egg Pinata. I thought that was clever. As long as it's filled with leftover goodies from the other birthday parties we've attended, the kids won't care how it looks.<br /><strong><br />Trick #3: Decorations & Food<br />Cost: Time, some gas, and a few “thank you”s</strong><br /><br />We'll be visiting every Publix Supermarket from here to Orlando the day before the party. Did you know they give out balloons AND cookies to the kids? I'm figuring one cookie per kid, so we really only need to hit the closest 10 stores. That's not bad.<br /><br />I found out last year that, for the life of me, I cannot decorate a cake. What started out as a ambitious design of Dora's head turned into a lopsided, black-and-pink-smeared pile of yuck. Not even the kids ate it. So, this year I'm making the kids do the hard part – they'll each get a cupcake to decorate however they see fit. I provide the frosting and sprinkles, they provide the artistic talent.<br /><br /><strong>Trick #4: Goodie bags<br />Cost: If you do it my way, it's free!</strong><br /><br />Just don't do it. They got the random crap from the pinata, what else do they want?! Those goodie bags can be expensive! Cute little plastic bags and matching useless toys that will be their parent's worst nightmare 10 minutes after they get home are not necessities. Plus, all that plastic is terrible for the environment. So, in effect, by not giving them anything, I am really saving their lives. <br /><strong><br />Trick #5: Happy kids<br />Cost: Priceless</strong><br /><br />They are kids – put them together, give them something to do, and they are happy. Their parties are about them, not the stuff we surround them with. They will have a wonderful day and remember it for approximately one week – the same amount of time they would recall the expensive bounce house, visit to Chuck E. Cheese, or the guy dressed up like a Power Ranger making balloon animals. By the way, you can buy a “make your own balloon animal kit” at the Dollar Store for, you guessed it, a dollar. It even comes with directions. So what if all the kids get swords – you've just created another game!<br /><br />The kids are happy and Mom is happy. Primarily because she didn't go into debt over a five-year-old's birthday party. She can breathe a sigh of relief knowing the debt won't come for 15 more years. My next article will be “How To Throw A Wedding For Less Than $500”.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-90544165754609159082010-03-18T14:19:00.000-07:002010-03-19T04:55:14.884-07:00DrugsThere are pharmaceuticals for every disease, addiction, disorder, and syndrome in existence. We are drowning in pills, caplets and extend-tabs for every possible problem. Except for the REALLY important ones.<br /><br /> .o.O.o.O.o.O.o.<br /><br />Why have they not come up with a decent <em><strong>weight loss</strong></em> drug yet? One that doesn't make you *cough* all over yourself. No, not cough all over yourself - *cough* all over yourself (as in *cough* <em>shit </em>*cough*). I can buy something that will make my boobs bigger, but can't find anything to make my butt smaller. Who's in charge around here? Oh right - a man.<br /><br />What about an <strong><em>anti-procrastination</em></strong> pill? Cocaine doesn't count, I'm talking over-the-counter here. Plus, how much could you really get done with your nose running faster than your feet?<br /><br />For that matter, <strong><em>sleep </em></strong>in pill-form would help me out a lot. It would have to be better than the No Doz caffeine pills you can buy. Firstly, that's what coffee is for. And secondly, three hours after I take the pill, I crash faster than my computer. No, the new drug needs to knock me out so I sleep like a baby, and then be able to wake me up like a baby does (about an hour and a half later). Without the need of a diaper change, of course – that would be an unpleasant side-effect.<br /><br />A <em><strong>cure for stupidity</strong></em> would have to come in an aerosol form. You know, like the ones you can shoot up your nose if it's stuffy. That way you could walk down the hall at work and spray in all directions. Can they make an aerosol strong enough to get from my window into the car next to me? We could combine that one with a dose of <em><strong>driving improvement</strong></em>. <br /><br />What I really need is a <strong><em>listen to Mommy and do what she says</em></strong> tablet. In chewable form, or maybe gummy. It'd be the one drug I'd actually encourage my children to become addicted to. Especially if it's side-effects included inability to concentrate on video games and possible OCD-ish behavior with regard to cleanliness.<br /><br />The bottom line is that before all of these life/sanity saving drugs can be developed, we need funding. Research and development, attorney fees, and kick-backs to the FDA all take money. So, while I start sketching out the grant proposal, you get to work on our product names. Use the comment box on this page to let me know what you come up with. <br /><br />Come on, People. Let's do it for humanity.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-26082580174270834942010-03-07T12:55:00.000-08:002011-02-20T13:14:48.777-08:00I Can't Believe I'm Doing ThisA brilliant writer requested I do this chain-letter-ish thing. Normally, I'd hit delete faster than I can drain a bottle of beer. But, seeing as I currently am on my second bottle, I seem to be doing it. Forgive me, Mom.
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<br />I'm supposed to answer each thing with a single word. One-word answers are hard for me in the best of times. Do hyphenated words count? Wish me luck. And if I respond with any embarrassing answers, I'm sorry, Mom.
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<br />Your cell phone: Appendage
<br />Your hair: Messy
<br />Your life: Messy
<br />Your mother: Forgiving :)
<br />Your father: Integrity
<br />Your favorite food: Ice Cream (oops, 2 words)
<br />Your dream last night: Forgettable
<br />Your favorite drink: Pina Colada (oops again - 2 words!)
<br />Your dream goal: Published
<br />What room are you in: "Office"
<br />Your hobby: Dreaming
<br />Your fear: Giving up (2 words - couldn't help it)
<br />Where do you see yourself in six years: Successful
<br />Where were you last night: Home (boohoo)
<br />Something you aren't: Speechless
<br />Muffins: Chocolate chip (2 words - dang it)
<br />Wish list item: Agent (really good agent - oops)
<br />Where did you grow up: California
<br />Last thing you did: Beer-run (kidding)
<br />What are you wearing: Shoes
<br />Your TV: Crap
<br />Your pets: Heli
<br />Friends: Generous
<br />Your mood: Unpredictable
<br />Missing someone: Always
<br />Vehicle: Subaru
<br />Something you aren't wearing: Taffeta
<br />Your favorite store: Office Max (one place, two words)
<br />Your favorite color: Red
<br />When was last time your laughed: This morning (2 words, I give up)
<br />Last time you cried: Sporatically
<br />Your best friend: Liz
<br />One place you go to over and over: Laundry room (one place, two words, multiple visits)
<br />Facebook: Infrequently
<br />Favorite place to eat: Sublime
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<br />We've just proven that I cannot follow directions, and, despite being on my third beer now, brevity is not a quality I possess. And I really was trying...really.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-69001550762538090552010-03-07T12:04:00.000-08:002010-03-07T12:30:58.291-08:00A Belated Valentine's GiftEvery-so-often a writer touches on something so wise, so true, that we all stand up and notice. One such writer is Winston Groom. He wrote the book <em>Forrest Gump</em>. His line of truth is often quoted, but seldom fully considered.<br /><br /> “My momma always said, 'Life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get.'”<br /><br /> Truer words were never spoken... by a fictional character in a book later turned into a blockbuster movie starring Tom Hanks. <br /><br /> Of course, in my experience, you need to get that box for yourself 'cuz no one is going to give it to you. Not even on Valentine's Day. I've gotten flowers, cards, and, long ago, a slinky pair of underwear, but never chocolate. That says something, doesn't it?<br /><br /> So, in order to get a life/box of chocolates, I need to go to a store. A store filled with people who ignore me except for the occasional and totally insincere “sorry” if their cart is blocking my way down the aisle. Once I get to the candy section, my eyes flit from one red, cellophane-covered box to the next. There are too many choices. Lining the top shelves are huge, dual-level ones of fine Belgian goodness that I can't afford. My gaze drifts downwards to micro-mini boxes filled with cheap and probably stale chunks of brown that resemble something made from what comes out of the end of a cow rather than her utter. The latter is the only type I'm comfortable spending money on. I mean, it's just for me, and is therefore not really important.<br /><br /> I didn't mention the guilt that goes along with even standing in that aisle. Glancing both directions with my arms tightly crossed in front of my chest, I'm embarrassed. Sure, it's somewhat humiliating to have to buy your own Valentine's Day gift. But I can brush that off - I have my excuse all prepared. If someone looks at me funny, I'll just shrug and say, “I never know what to get him.” No one knows that the “him” I'm referring to is my cat who doesn't like chocolate. But I'll “help” him enjoy his gift by polishing off the box while he and I watch a romantic comedy. No, the embarrassing part is that I'm in the candy aisle. Period. It's a law from the female handbook. I'm paraphrasing here, but the gist is: <em>Thou shalt not buy sweets without feeling mucho guilt</em>.<br /><br /> So, after sneaking up to the cash register, avoiding any judgmental eyes, I ask for my forbidden fruit with no fruit (I take my chocolate straight, thank you very much) to be double-bagged for privacy's sake. Porn, chocolate – it's all the same. Back at my lair, after queuing up the film, I unwrap my heart-shaped prize and settle back onto the couch with my cat beside me. I like to think he's happy because it's the thought that counts.<br /><br /> While finer chocolates have the guide as to which chocolate has coconut-filling and which has nuts in it, the cheap ones do not. As in the rest of my life, I have to guess. I force myself to take a tiny bite when what I really want to do is shove them one-by-one without chewing into my mouth. But, in this and, sadly, in only this, I have learned patience.<br /><br /> This oval one is...raspberry. Eww. Like I said, fruit and chocolate - not good. I put the rest of that one back in its little spot.<br /> This one with the swirl of white chocolate is...oh god, I don't even know what that is. Sugar-flavored? Yeah, I'll eat that one.<br /><br /> One by one I go through them, tasting and disliking. It doesn't take long because I couldn't rationalize buying the big, ridiculously-cheap one. But there is one shape I recognize – the square. Regardless of size of box or quality of chocolate, they always include that one, and it always has the same interior. You know which one I mean. I keep that one for last. Until then, I taste each one, decide I hate most of them, put them down, and then go back and finish them off anyway. <br /><br /> And finally, the square. The perfect closure to a life experience of humiliation, nervousness, and filling myself with almost-good-but-not-good-enough. The square - sweet caramel enveloped by milk chocolate. It may be hard and difficult to swallow, but I love it as I love my family – totally and completely.<br /><br /> So, is life like a box of chocolates? Let's consider. No one is going to give me a life. I have to get it on my own. Life is full of embarrassment and, occasionally, shame. I hide myself behind at least two layers of baggage. Patience has its rewards; even mistakes sometimes have their rewards. I push myself to try new things, but they never seem to satisfy me. And, most importantly, I keep the knowledge that, someday, I will have something that, though it may be hard and difficult to swallow, will be bring me the joy and fulfillment I long for.<br /> <br /> Life...if only it came in a pretty, red, cellophane-covered box.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-53973819399325537802009-12-29T12:46:00.000-08:002009-12-29T12:50:30.943-08:00BelligerentAs I was doing my errands today, I discovered something about myself. Something humiliating, something terrible and frightening. <br /><br />I am one of those “happy people”! You know what I'm talking about, right? Those people who smile at perfect strangers or hold the door open for someone else after they walk through themselves, even if it means they have to wait until the other person casually strolls up the sidewalk to the door. One of those weirdos who wish everyone they make eye contact with (as well as those they don't) a “Happy New Year” or give the grocery shopper next to them advice on which kind of deodorant works best.<br /><br />Oh my god, I'm one of <em>them</em>. <br /><br />I was just getting a cup a coffee for goodness sake! Just standing there waiting patiently for my peppermint mocha, when I heard the woman who ordered after me say she didn't have enough money to pay for her iced latte. So without thinking, I reached into my own wallet, counted out 43 cents, and gave it to her. She thanked me and smiled. The cashier tilted her head to the side and smiled too. Then, when I went to return their smiles, I realized that I didn't have to make one. I was already wearing a stupidly large grin. The worst part was I didn't know where it had come from <em>or </em>how long it had been there!<br /><br />It was disgusting. So I did what any other true-blooded American would do - I dropped the smile and pushed past the other patrons on my way out the door. I didn't hold it open for the next person coming through. In fact, I closed it on purpose, which wasn't easy because it was one of those safe doors that close really slowly. But I did it. Then I threw a nasty glare to the person I'd just stopped and stormed to my car. On the way home, I cut off as many other drivers as I could and even flipped someone the bird for absolutely no reason.<br /><br />I reached over to get my mocha from the cupholder and my hand closed around air. The cupholder was empty. I'd left my drink back at the coffee shop. <br /><br />I just hope that once they realized I'd left without it, they'd given it to the person I closed the door on. Or maybe the driver I'd flipped off was heading to get coffee and she likes peppermint mochas too. She could have it. <br /><br />Oh crap! There I go doing it again. Maybe that would be a good resolution for New Years – eat healthily, go to the gym, and practice being belligerent.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-30361908784544706362009-12-08T09:17:00.000-08:002009-12-08T09:32:20.702-08:00WordsWhat is your favorite word? Not the word you use most frequently -- the word that makes you smile when you say it. My son's favorite word is “glossary”. He didn't know what it meant, but liked the way it sounded when he said it. That's what I mean -- the kind of word that feels good in your mouth and tickles your tongue. A good word has a trill to it like music. Hey, that's a nice one – “trill”.<br /><br />I love words; not a big surprise from someone who dreams of one day making a living with them. But with writing, the words are spelled, not spoken – it's not the same. I have to imagine the words on the page being said aloud, or at least wait until I'm alone in the house so my family won't think I've lost it. The other downside to writing is that I don't seem to be able to use most of my favorite words in my work: “existential”, “sanctimonious”, “reciprocity”. Although I did actually manage to squeeze “carnivorous” into a story recently.<br /><br />Others I can't even fit into conversation, at least not the sort of conversations I have. “Perpetuate” is hard to slip into a chat about play-dates, isn't it? If only I knew a “philanthropist” to refer to or even knew what “pedagogy” meant. And who could I possibly describe as “nubile” without being laughed at? Unfortunately, as this point in my life, I have no need to use the word “aphrodisiac”. <br /><br />Of course, every once in a while, there is a “calamity” in my life, or an “ignoramus”. I did have to “eradicate” the ants from my kitchen a few weeks ago. Yesterday I told the clerk at Best Buy that something was “prohibitively” expensive. He didn't smile when I said it, but I did. Oh, and on Friday, my boss went “ballistic” when I asked him if I could have a few days off around Christmas.<br /><br />My daughter told me that her favorite word is “kitty”. I asked her why, but she just shrugged. Then my son leaned over and whispered to me, “I thought she was going to say 'makeup'”. So did I.<br /><br />What's your favorite? You don't have to tell me, but I'm betting that the next time you say it, you'll think of me ... or not.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-82522926660800790262009-12-07T06:06:00.000-08:002009-12-07T06:06:00.240-08:00How I Know I Don't Have Enough Friends...Or maybe it's that the friends I do have just don't like me enough. Or my family. While I ponder that, I will tell you how I came upon this realization.<br /><br />It started at my mailbox, I know it's Sunday - no mail, but I forgot to get it yesterday. Thankfully, since I signed up for all of those eco-friendly services to reduce the amount of junk mail I receive, I usually only get enough to fill the mailbox every <em>other</em> day.<br /><br />On the way back to my door, I went through the letters.<br /><br /><ul><li>One big stack of advertisements that, out of principle, I will never look at, much less use.</li><li>A letter from my bank - hopefully a statement and not a Notice Of Changes to my account, which we all know is bank speech for "more expensive charges for every reason we can think of".</li><li>Three envelopes of identical size and return address (no name, just the address) with something hard inside of them, like a credit card.</li><li>And one larger envelope that looked like a Christmas card!</li></ul>As soon as I got inside, I dumped the ads into the recycling bin and threw the letter from Bank of America onto my desk (okay, I'm not that organized - it was the kitchen table, but it's almost like a desk). Then I sat down, tore open the first of the envelopes that had something inside of it, and peeked in. As soon as I saw what was inside, I squealed - a gift card! It was a gift card! Everyone loves gifts! And I had not one, but <strong>three</strong> of them in front of me! Who were they from? I pulled out the card and the attached letter. A bit of my glee disappeared as I saw who it was from.<br /><br />It isn't as exciting to receive a gift card that you sent yourself. I'd traded in some airline miles from an airline I never planned on using again to get three $25 gift cards to a bookstore and two restaurants. It was so long ago, I'd forgotten.<br /><br />At least I could take myself out to dinner, plus there was still the other envelope that really looked like a Christmas card. So I grabbed that one and ripped it open. It was! It was a Christmas card - not the finest quality, but I'm not picky. It had five different-colored Christmas tree ornaments in a row, hanging from a squiggly line of sparkles. Sparkles make me smile. The words wished me "Happy Holidays"! I wondered what the inside would say (seeing as how sweet the front was). I opened up the card and read:<br /><br /><div align="center">Enjoy the gift of Netflix</div><br />It was an ad, there wasn't even a gift card in it.<br /><br />Do you know how I'm sure I don't have enough friends. Because I put that card up on my mantel. Right next to the one I'd received from State Farm for Thanksgiving. Then I took myself out to dinner.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-71167047782662905172009-12-02T15:42:00.000-08:002011-11-19T08:13:08.654-08:00DAYS OF THE WEEK, sung by Zoe S<strong><br />Monday, Monday, Oh I love my Monday<br />Monday, Monday, Oh I love my MONDAY!</strong><br />At the final Monday, she yells the word and throws her arms up into the air<br /><br /><strong>Tuesday, Tuesday, Oh I love my Tuesday<br />Tuesday, Tuesday, Oh I love my TUESDAY!</strong><br />Same thing here<br /><br /><strong>Wednesday, Wednesday, Oh I love my Wednesday<br />Wednesday, Wednesday, Oh I love my WEDNESDAY!</strong><br />Ditto<br /><br /><strong>Thursday, Thursday, Oh I love my Thursday<br />Thursday, Thursday, Oh I love my THURSDAY!</strong><br />You guessed it<br /><br /><strong>Friday, Friday, Oh-</strong><br />She stops singing, a puzzled look on her face.<br /><br /><strong>Wait, erase that ... cause we don't usually sing it on Fridays. </strong><br />This is where I start laughing.<br /><br /><strong>Let me start over. </strong><br />Right here I'm trying not to visibly cringe<br /><strong><br />But just from Thursday.</strong><br />Sigh of relief<br /><br /><strong>Thursday, Thursday, Oh I love my Thursday...</strong><br /><br />You can't make this stuff up.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-83675237680340896182009-11-30T05:50:00.000-08:002009-11-30T06:04:55.188-08:00TextingI love texting. I do it constantly. But, even though it is oddly still legal in Florida, I don't do it while I'm driving. Outside the car, though, I am like a fiend on my little QWERTY keyboard. My best friend and I have long conversations with our fingers - back and forth, back and forth. We do it all the time because we can type fast.<br /><br />The only problem with texting is that sometimes, and with some people, it just isn't fast enough. Plus, my phone only lets me use 160 characters before I have to press 'send' and start another one. Then I have to go back into the main menu, through 'messaging', 'send text', 'text message', and select the recipient again, all before I can continue my thought from the previous text. Not everyone types as fast as I do, and some people don't have the full keyboard. They have to press 'PQRS' three times for each 'R' in "terrible", just to describe their day! That is what my mom has to do.<br /><br />If I were more electronically inclined, I would invent something faster than texting - something that could practically read your mind, it would be so fast. Then, because I created it, I could name it. It would need to be something user-friendly, something simple that could easily become part of our everyday venacular. Something like...<br /><br /><div align="center">TELEPHONE</div>Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004562140362189540.post-52292202989878414492009-11-26T17:01:00.000-08:002009-11-26T17:23:17.258-08:00Mary Poppins Inspires AnarchyThe kids and I were watching Mary Poppins today. Them for the first time, and me for the 8 billionth time. Remember it? It's a great movie about a totally disfunctional family who knows how to sing and the nanny who comes to save them all.<br /><br />I mean, really, the two kids are angels compared to kids today (my own not included - they really <em>are</em> angels) but both have massive inferiority complexes. The mother is a closet feminist - dancing through the streets for the right to vote during the day then gliding smoothly into the role of doormat as soon as her husband comes home. And the father, well, he's what we would now call "a prick". I can't see Julie Andrews saying that at all though.<br /><br />But in the end, he turns around and realizes that he would rather be flying a kite with his kids than working. That was the part that got me - he'd rather be flying a kite. Okay. Makes sense. Then he tells his boss off and dances away with his family.<br /><br />That was when I realized how fantastic life would be if we all came to that conclusion. Every one of us could dance out of our places of employment to go fly kites. The telling your boss off part could be up to the individual - I happen to like my boss, so would skip that part.<br /><br />Then I came to my second realization - not many of us know how to fly kites. And not many of us would <em>want</em> to fly a kite. Hmm, too bad - he looked so happy.Lauren Stewarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12887393856861966255noreply@blogger.com0